by Greg Singleton
Whenever a person achieves a measure of worldly success in life, suddenly everybody wants to know his or her secret. Most of these successful people talk about the elements of hard work and focus. Some of them aren’t really certain how they got where they are, so they attribute it to luck or fate. There are even a few who think they just got what they deserved, so they’re pretty arrogant about it.
It was quite a few years ago, but I can vividly recall what it felt like when they placed our first baby in my arms there in the hospital room. After a feeling of overwhelming happiness passed, the impact of the responsibility hit me. Then, I started making plans.
I wanted to make sure that my daughter had the best education and knew the most important people, so she couldn’t miss being successful. Wanting what was best for my child was admirable, but my ideas at the time were completely misguided.
King David thought it was important that his kids were successful. Even on his deathbed, he called his son Solomon to his side to make sure he knew what it would take to be successful as the Hebrews’ next ruler. He didn’t tell Solomon about the good colleges though or remind him of the people he needed to connect with to make sure things got done. Instead, in 1 Kings 2, David told his son to be courageous in the face of tough things and to find God’s purpose and follow it.
That’s success. In our book Let It Shine!, my wife Martha and I include the stories of several amazing young adults who are successful because, by God’s power, they are dramatically changing their world for the good. Some of them you might know because they are beginning to achieve recognition for the work they’re doing. Some of them you could pass on the street and never know what a dramatic impact they are having on others’ lives. They have one thing in common, though. They’re not fearful of what could happen or might not happen, and they are passionate about following God’s personal mission for them.
Sometime our kids’ frailties and childish irresponsibility crowd out the fact that God has uniquely called each one of them, too, to be a world-changer. He has gifted them with talents and abilities to achieve great things that might bring them worldwide acclaim or might go virtually unnoticed.
We have the privilege of being able to help them find their place. We don’t need to push them there or wedge them in, but we simply need to introduce them to the One who created them. We show them what it means to be courageous and trust God. And when they find fulfillment in their passion for Him, they will be successful—His way!
Martha and Greg Singleton have, for more than 30 years, met the challenges of balancing successful professional careers in journalism and marketing while raising a faith-filled family (a son, Matt, and a daughter, Annie). Together, they creatively share their experiences and insights on family life at conferences, seminars, workshops, churches of various denominations, schools, and businesses. They live in San Antonio, Texas.







